INTERVIEW WITH JOANNA MEYER
The Surprising Link Between Your Job and Calling
A fresh perspective on integrating work and faith into a meaningful single life.
Many of us grow up believing that our calling is some elusive, hidden mystery to find—like a needle in a haystack. But what if it’s much simpler and more beautiful than that? For single women, calling isn’t just about big, life-altering decisions like marriage and children. It’s about daily discernment and sensitivity to God’s leading. This approach moves us from passively waiting for divine instructions to actively cultivating an intimate, trusting relationship with God.
Joanna Meyer, Executive Director of Women, Work & Calling, believes at its core, calling is our whole-life response to God’s voice. It’s not about finding one specific task or role, but about living faithfully in all aspects of our lives. Our entire life can be an expression of our response to God.
We might believe that God’s will is hard to discern or that our calling must be something grand and obvious. However, by understanding that every believer is called to a life of discipleship and service, we can embrace a broader, more freeing perspective on calling.
May grace and peace be multiplied to you in the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord. His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of Him who called us to His own glory and excellence…1 Peter 1:2-3
Singleness is Not a Waiting Period
Society and the church often view singleness as merely a prelude to marriage. But what if we saw it as valuable in its own right? The journey of living as a single woman comes with its unique challenges and joys. Challenging these cultural norms requires courage and conviction. Single women need to be empowered to pursue their callings without feeling that they fall short of societal expectations. This might involve having honest conversations with family and friends, seeking out role models who have successfully navigated similar paths, and continually grounding oneself in God’s truth rather than cultural messages.
It’s important to recognize that being single doesn’t mean putting life on hold. It’s about finding contentment and purpose in the here and now rather than constantly looking to a hypothetical future. Single life is an opportunity to fully invest in your personal growth, career development, and spiritual journey. Remembering that God’s plan for each person is unique is crucial. For some women, their calling might primarily revolve around their professional work, while for others, it might involve a mix of career, ministry, and personal relationships. We have tremendous opportunities to develop a strong sense of identity in Christ and deep devotion to God.
Remember that your relationship status or job title does not determine your worth, but you are a beloved child of God. As you navigate life as a single woman, hold onto this truth and let it guide your decisions and actions.
At the same time, it’s okay to acknowledge the grief that can come with unmet expectations. Whether it’s the desire for marriage or, as Joanna shared in the podcast, coming to terms with not having biological children right now or ever. These feelings can be profoundly isolating but are valid and should be processed openly with trustworthy friends.
The Power of Community
A significant aspect of thriving as a single woman is having a supportive community within and outside the church. This goes beyond casual friendships to deep, meaningful connections that weave into the fabric of daily life.
A robust community includes a variety of connections:
1. Close friends who understand your journey
2. Mentors who offer guidance and wisdom
3. Couples who welcome you into their family life
4. Fellow singles who share similar experiences
5. Colleagues who support your professional growth
Practical Steps for Building Community
For Singles:
Single women often feel isolated and alone. Building community and cultivating friendships as we age requires hard work and intentionality.
- Be proactive in building your community
- Express your desire for deeper connections
- Be vulnerable about your needs and open to receiving support
- Seek out friendships that offer both emotional and practical support
For Couples:
Building a community that values and integrates single women into family life can be deeply enriching for both sides. Imagine being welcomed into a friend’s home, not as an outsider, but as an integral part of their family routines. This kind of inclusion offers a sense of belonging that can be tremendously fulfilling.
- Consider how you can open your life to single friends
- Invite them over for dinner or family outings
- Offer practical help when needed
- Be mindful of creating an inclusive environment
For Everyone:
Reflect on your own journey and consider how you can integrate your life more deeply with God’s purpose. Share your story with others and seek out supportive communities. Trust that God has given you everything you need for a godly life, and live boldly into all God has for you.
- Look around and see who might be feeling isolated or lonely
- Extend invitations and acts of kindness
- Share your own story and experiences
Finding Purpose and Redefining Success
You can live fully and faithfully by embracing supportive communities, acknowledging both the joys and challenges of your journey, and finding purpose in your daily actions.
In a world of unlimited possibilities, it’s crucial to see work as good and integral to God’s plan. This perspective allows us to find purpose regardless of our marital status or career achievements.
Challenge yourself to integrate all aspects of your life into your walk with God. Create spaces for flourishing and thriving, whether in your career, hobbies, or relationships.
With all its unique qualities and experiences, your life is an essential part of God’s grand narrative. Whether single or married, remember that your life, work, and relationships are all part of a more remarkable story that God is writing. Your story matters, and the world needs the gift that only you can bring.
If you liked this blog post, you’ll want to check out the Mission Single podcast available on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen to podcasts.
Want to dive deeper into Joanna Meyer’s insights? Get with her book Women, Work, & Calling: Step Into Your Place in God’s World.
This groundbreaking work bridges the gap in Christian women’s discipleship, offering a theological framework for navigating professional life and making an impact in your sphere of influence.
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